Notre perception de Dieu et pourquoi c'est important

Notre perception de Dieu et pourquoi c'est important

Colossiens 3:2
Réfléchissez aux choses ci-dessus, pas sur les choses sur terre.

Romains 12:1-2
Ne vous conformez pas à ce monde mais soyez transformé par le renouvellement de votre esprit, afin que vous puissiez prouver quelle est cette volonté bonne, acceptable et parfaite de Dieu.

Je ne me souviens plus d'où vient cette citation, mais elle a beaucoup de sens. « La science nous dit que les pensées répétitives, au fil du temps, deviennent des ornières physiques dans le cerveau qui affectent le raisonnement., choix, et finalement nos croyances.

Quelle était votre perception de Dieu lorsque vous étiez enfant?

Était-il gentil, affectueux, et accessible ou froid, loin, et en colère?
Ma perception de Dieu en tant qu'enfant était qu'il était en colère et qu'il me punirait pour la moindre offense., Ce n'était pas un Dieu d'amour mais de colère. J'ai grandi dans une église où j'ai vu la punition pour la moindre offense avec les dirigeants et les réprimandes. Les gens là-bas étaient très durs et critiques. Et que Dieu voulait absolument suivre les règles. Je n'y ai pas vu l'amour de Dieu.
Vous pouvez lire mon blog sous la rubrique pensée puante: https://myashestobeauty.com/stinking-thinking-my-distorted-view-of-god/

Comment cela vous a-t-il affecté en grandissant?
À cause de ma vision déformée de Dieu, quand je me suis retrouvé dans de mauvaises situations, J'ai décidé de prendre les choses en main au lieu de demander à Dieu ce que je devais faire. Je ne pensais pas qu'il se souciait de moi. J'étais dans une telle obscurité que je ne pouvais pas du tout voir sa lumière. À cause des relations malsaines que j'avais avec mes proches, qui étaient plutôt manipulatrices et contrôlantes., Je ne pensais pas que je valais grand-chose aux yeux de Dieu ou des autres. Alors, qu'importe ce que je fais à mon corps, mon bébé, ou d'autres? Mais Dieu apparaissait de temps en temps quand j'avais l'impression qu'il était là et qu'il s'intéressait à ma vie.. Mais je ne le connaîtrais pas comme mon Seigneur et Sauveur avant d'être 34 ans.

Éphésiens 3:16-19
Qu'il t'accorderait, selon les richesses de sa gloire, être fortifié avec puissance par Son Esprit dans l'homme intérieur; afin que Christ habite dans vos cœurs par la foi, que tu, être enraciné et ancré dans l'amour, peut-être être capable de comprendre avec tous les saints quelle est la largeur, la longueur, la profondeur et la hauteur – connaître l'amour du Christ qui dépasse la connaissance; afin que tu sois rempli de toute la plénitude de Dieu.

Comment vois-tu Dieu maintenant?
J'ai maintenant enfin reçu la belle œuvre rédemptrice du Christ dans ma vie une fois que j'ai pu recevoir son amour au plus profond de mon être., cette vérité m'a changé pour toujours. Même après avoir été sauvé, J'ai permis aux gens de me maltraiter et de m'utiliser parce que je n'avais pas de limites, et parce que je ne m'aimais pas, les autres ne m'ont pas non plus traité avec amour et respect. Mais une fois que son amour a imprégné mon cœur, J'ai eu le courage de fixer des limites et j'ai commencé à prendre soin de moi et à m'aimer. C'était la chose la plus libératrice et la plus belle que j'ai vécue, connaître l'amour de Dieu pour moi-même. Ressentir et savoir dans mon cœur, que peu importe ce que j'ai fait dans le passé, il m'aime.

Comment te voit-il?
Je suis reconnaissant pour la vérité de la parole de Dieu selon laquelle chaque personne est créée à son image et reçoit une valeur intrinsèque et est créée dans le but de son royaume.. Je ne suis plus lié à Satan et au péché, mais je suis adopté dans la famille de Dieu.; Je suis une fille du Roi de Gloire. Il m'aimait tellement qu'il est mort pour moi sur la croix. Son amour est si profond, et large, et si haut que je ne peux pas le comprendre, mais je crois dans mon cœur que je suis chéri et aimé de Dieu. Et je serai avec lui pour toujours au ciel pour toute l'éternité. En juillet de 2017 nous avions ma famille élargie en ville, ma sœur et mon frère et leurs familles. Par conséquent, J'ai commencé à me sentir anxieux et j'ai commencé à me sentir rejeté par tous, parce que tu vois qu'ils ne connaissent pas encore le Seigneur, donc je ne fais plus partie de leur famille. Le rejet a été pour moi une énorme blessure et je peux y aller très vite si je ne suis pas ancré dans la Parole.. Pour combattre ma blessure de rejet, Dieu m'a demandé d'écrire des vérités bibliques spécifiques sur, « Qui je suis en Christ," ça se passe comme ça:

Qui je suis en Christ

je suis digne
je suis aimé
J'appartiens
je suis accepté
je suis adopté
Je suis confiant et compétent
je suis un enfant de Dieu
J'ai le Saint-Esprit en moi
Je suis victorieux en Christ
J'ai une maison au paradis
Rien ne peut me séparer de l'amour de Dieu en Jésus-Christ mon Seigneur
Je ne craindrai aucun mal

Je suis si fier de toi d'avoir eu le courage de sortir et de faire confiance à Dieu pour te guérir..

Tu es en sécurité, sa sœur bien-aimée.

Tu es aimé,
Toni

Psaume 147:3
Il guérit les cœurs brisés et panse leurs blessures. (NKJV)

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Allez-vous permettre à Jésus de vous guérir?

Allez-vous permettre à Jésus de vous guérir?

UNEautobus Rrécupération Ssoutien ggroupe (ARSG)

Allez-vous permettre à Jésus de vous guérir?

Il guérit les cœurs brisés et panse leurs blessures. Psaume 147:3 NKJV

Only Jesus knows what it feels like to be verbally and physically abused, mocked and spit on, and publicly humiliated as He hung on the cross naked and beaten and rejected by His closest friends. I believe only Jesus can heal us physically, spiritually, mentally, and emotionally from all the forms of abuse and trauma we have experienced in our lives. In Isaiah 53:5, the Bible says, “But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; the chastisement for our peace was upon Him, et by His stripes we are healed."

Thank you for joining our first support group meeting on abuse. We will be covering all kinds of abuse from emotional, physical, sexual, and spiritual. We want to give each of you an opportunity to share your stories and your hearts in a safe and loving environment so that the healing journey you started will continue. One thing I have learned through the abortion recovery ministry is that we need a community of women who have experienced the same things we have, in order for us to open up and be vulnerable. God is providing you with a group of sisters who love Jesus and each other, and who are courageous and committed to this healing journey. They are willing to do the work necessary to reach the next level in their healing as they grow closer to God in the process. They no longer want to settle for barely existing. Non, they want more. They want the abundant life that Jesus died to give them.

Dans ma maison d'origine, I never developed a voice because of the chaos and unpredictable home environment I grew up in. From an early age, I believed I had the power to make someone happy or angry by my behavior. That was a lie from the pit of hell, but I would not discover that truth until I got into ACA recovery work in 2010-2015. I have no such control, but this lie lead me down a path of people-pleasing that opened me up to all kinds of harsh treatment and abuse by others who would use and manipulate me. I enabled this behavior because of my need for love and acceptance. I did not understand codependency, emotional and verbal abuse, and how it was having an effect on me and the choices I would make in my life. I thought this was normal; it was my normal but, God knows it wasn’t His plan for the family.

I started rebelling at the age of 12, drinking Scotch Whiskey from my parent’s liquor cabinet, getting high at 13 and having sex at 16 and then, my abortion at 21. I struggled with depression as a teenager, and when I got drunk, I acted out and kicked out a window in my college dorm. I punched walls and was so filled with rage and hatred towards myself. After my abortion, these unhealthy coping mechanisms just increased in intensity. My abortion was the nail in my coffin. That act plunged me headlong into the dark pit of despair and suicidal thoughts. I just wanted to end this torment of a life; I did not see a way out.

Then one glorious day, I met Jesus and He forgave all my sins, and He began healing my broken body, soul and mind. It’s been twenty-seven years, and He is still healing and loving me. And it has been a beautiful journey.

What was your home of origin like?

How did that affect your decision making?

Did you make healthy decisions or ones based out of fear?

Have you received help in this area to stop this unhealthy cycle in your life?

The UNEautobus Rrécupération Ssoutien ggroupe (ARSG) meets on the 2nd and 4th Sundays of every month, à 4:15 PM EST. More information regarding the Sunday calls is found on this page, Traumatisme des abus sexuels.

S'il vous plaît tendre la main, email us at arwsg4u2@gmail.com, we can help you heal from your past trauma with our loving and caring support group, la Parole de Dieu, le Saint-Esprit, prayer, and accountability.

Tu es aimé,
Toni

 

 

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Les pièges du diable (Séries): Veille

Les pièges du diable (Séries): Veille

Les pièges du diable: EVE
A Series Taken from Dr. Charles Stanley

“Veille”

Genèse 2:21
And the Seigneur God caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam, and he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place.

Genèse 3:1–9
“Now the serpent was more cunning than any beast of the field which the Lord God had made. And he said to the woman, “Has God indeed said, ‘You shall not eat of every tree of the garden’?"

And the woman said to the serpent, “We may eat the fruit of the trees of the garden; but of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God has said, ‘You shall not eat it, nor shall you touch it, lest you die.’”

Then the serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die. For God knows that in the day you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”

So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree desirable to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate. She also gave to her husband with her, and he ate. Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves coverings.

And they heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden.

Then the Lord God called to Adam and said to him, “Where are you?"

Have you ever wanted something you knew you should not have or participated in something you knew you shouldn’t? Have you ever been tempted to sin?

The enemy tries to take our attention off of God and focus on the one thing we don’t have. For Eve, it is the fruit she cannot eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. The serpent has been observing Eve for a while. He cannot read her mind, but he watches for her reactions and her behavior patterns. He sees her approaching the tree and looking at the beautiful fruit. She is thinking, I wonder why God is keeping this from me. God is holding back something good from me. It’s because He doesn’t really love and care about me. If He did, He would let me have this fruit.

For those of us who have had children or have spent any time with children, we understand that children do not know what is best for them. They would eat junk food all day and watch TV all night. As adults, we know that is not a healthy way to live. We love them. Alors, we teach them and put up boundaries so they learn to make healthy choices. We do this because we care about their well-being and their future. God loves us too and wanted to protect Adam, Eve and the whole world from the destructive effects of sin. That’s why He told them not to eat of the fruit.

We see in Scripture that Eve has a conversation with Satan the serpent. That was her first mistake. Do not have a dialogue with the enemy. Do not even entertain his thoughts because he is more cunning then you know. We cannot reason or trust the enemy to lead us to do anything that would benefit us in any way. His ways always lead to death and destruction. That’s why knowing the Word of God is so important. When the enemy lies to you, you will know the truth and you will not fall into temptation or sin.

The second thing we see is Satan causing Eve to doubt God’s Word. He said, “You shall not eat it: for in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die.” (Genèse 2:17) Satan said, “You shall not surely die, For God knows that in the day you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”

Becoming like “god” was all Eve needed to hear. Pride will destroy a godly person faster than anything else. I can be my own “god”. I can do whatever I want. I am in charge of my life. I don’t need God. I took that approach when I had my abortion because I thought I knew better. I wanted to be in control of my life. I am my own “god”. Look what that did for me and my dear son. He died as a result of my decision. Consequently, I was plunged headlong into deep despair, depression, self-loathing and suicidal thoughts. Don’t listen to Satan. He will destroy you. Only God’s way leads to life, peace, joy and true freedom.

Alors, where was Adam when this was all happening? When Eve took of the fruit and ate it, Adam should have said, “What are you doing? God told us not to eat it.” But the scriptures say that Eve gave it to her husband, and he ate. Then their eyes were opened, and they knew they were naked. Puis, they sewed fig leaves together to cover up their nakedness and their sin. I, too, have done that in my life. I rushed to hide my sin never thinking about the consequences. Those decisions have never led to good outcomes for me. The fear of being unmasked is a powerful motivator. My false persona of being the good quiet one was in danger of exposure. Par conséquent, I rushed my decision to have an abortion. In my mind, there were no other alternatives. Hurry up and take care of it, or do this before someone finds out that the good quiet one in the family is a phony. My whole life had become a lie.

God calls out to Adam, “Where are you?" God knew where Adam and Eve were. He wanted to give them a chance to come out of hiding and confess their sin. toutefois, they didn’t. We hide from God too. We isolate ourselves as Christians. We stop going to church or stop being accountable to people when we sin because it’s easier. Then we wake up one morning and say, “How did I get here?” It happens very quickly, my friends. It’s important to confess sin daily to God and to stay in a close Christian community like this group where there is accountability. Each one of us is just one step away from falling into grievous sin. Stay close to God, read His Word, memorize Scripture and stay in community with other believers. If you do this, you will be protected from the lies and the fiery darts of the enemy.

Keep your focus on God alone, and you will be safe.

Please share how you took matters into your own hands like Eve did? What was the outcome?

What have you learned from that experience?

Tu es aimé,
Toni

 

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Comment Dieu a-t-il utilisé votre douleur?

Comment Dieu a-t-il utilisé votre douleur?

(2 Corinthiens 1:3-5)

Quand je suis venu à Christ à l'âge de 34, Je souffrais d'une grave dépression, douleur physique dans mes articulations et fatigue. J'ai demandé des réponses à plusieurs médecins, mais ils n'ont rien trouvé. Mes résultats de tests, Analyses CAT, MRIs and blood work all came back normal. I was perplexed. What is wrong with me? I now realize that my mental, emotional and health struggles were God’s way of getting my attention. Because of how poorly I felt, I couldn’t participate in my regular activities. It was during this time of suffering that God began drawing me to Himself.

How has God used suffering in your life to get your attention? In my case, God used my pain, weakness, fatigue and depression. God knows exactly how to reach all of us so that we turn to and focus on Him. God has always used my physical health issues to remind me to lean on Him. He uses suffering so that first, we will realize how much we need Him in our life and secondly, what kind of changes we need to make.

When I had the courage to trust God and finally wanted more than mere survival, God met me right where I was. God used my distress to bring me to Him. Even during my period of pain, God used me to help others. When I followed His lead by reaching out to those in need, I received even more healing for myself. Dans 2 Corinthiens 1:3-5, God’s Word says, “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted of God. For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too.” (ESV) God never wastes our suffering. It is all for a specific purpose. Some of you dear ones have suffered for a long time, and my heart goes out to you. It can seem very lonely at times, but God sees you. He loves you and has a purpose for your pain.

Christ suffered a horrific death on the cross for us. He also endured torture having been scourged, beaten, slapped, hit with rods and pierced in his skull with a crown of thorns. If anyone is acquainted with anguish and pain, it is Jesus. Come to Jesus just as you are, and He will give you comfort. Only He can carry you when you can’t take another step. He is the only one who will never leave you. He will not abuse you or take advantage of you. His love is pure, holy, just and life-affirming. His ways lead to true freedom and healing.

How has God used suffering in your life?

What is God showing you?

One day, beloved, we will be in glory in a place called Heaven where there is no more pain, sorrow or crying—a place where we will be embraced by the peace and love of Jesus.

Tu es aimé,
Toni

 

 

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