Rejet, Un mensonge du diable

Rejet, Un mensonge du diable

Rejet, Un mensonge du diable

by Toni Weisz/Spiritual Warfare
Psaume 27:10, Romains 8:38-39, Matthieu 24:35, Psaume 147:3

The spiritual warfare I am experiencing lately has heightened, due to me taking on the leadership for my church prayer team since our leaders stepped down a few months ago, and now I am about to start a STS (Remise du secret) study session. I am still in a
wheelchair after my foot surgery about a month ago. Alors, I would say I am a little vulnerable right now. But I am aware of what the evil one is trying to do. Rejection has always been a huge wound for me from my childhood.

When I feel rejected by my earthly family, I am reminded that my peace and security doesn’t come from money, relationships, or anything else this world has to offer. My peace and security come from knowing God my Heavenly Father, and His Son Jesus, and the Holy Spirit my constant companion and friend.

Alors, when the evil one comes to poke my rejection wound, I remind him, “I belong to God.” I was plucked out of my earthly family and placed into the family of God. I am adopted by God. I will never be rejected. I will never be abandoned. I will never walk alone again. “When my father and mother forsake me, the Lord will take care of me.” (Psaume 27:10)

I am loved by my Heavenly Father, and nothing shall separate me from His love. “For I am persuaded that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities nor powers, nor things present not things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Romains 8:38-39) What a beautiful promise from God’s Word.

Merci, Holy Spirit, for giving me God’s perspective. It gives me great comfort to know the truth. I pray for my unsaved family members who do not have a relationship with You. They are desperately holding onto things like money, relationships, their physical beauty, a retirement account, or anything that gives them a sense of security. But it will all burn up in the end. The only real thing in this world is a relationship with You, Jésus. Everything else will rust, corrupt, decay and die, but your Word will never pass away. It is eternal. “Heaven and earth will pass away, but My words will by no means pass away.” (Matthieu 24:35)

Dear one, I pray you know the Lord Jesus as your Savior. He knows what it feels like to be rejected and abandoned. He wants you to surrender all to Him. Stop trying to do things in your own strength. Allow Him to minister to you in all the places in your soul that have been wounded due to trauma from abortion and/or abuse. He comes to bind up the broken hearted and heal all your wounds. (Ref. Psaume 147:3)

Veuillez nous contacter si vous avez besoin de parler: toni@myashestobeauty.com.

Tu es aimé,
Toni

 

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Quels sont vos déclencheurs?

Quels sont vos déclencheurs?

Quels sont vos déclencheurs?
par Toni Weisz/Outils de récupération

Références bibliques: Psaume 91:2–4, Psaume 17:8, Psaume 37:40, Jérémie 29:11, Psaume 147:3, Romains 8:37 et Zéphanie 3:17

 

Que sont les déclencheurs?

Un déclencheur est une impulsion qui provoque une réaction négative causée par les mots d'un autre, actions ou une situation spécifique, Surtout pour ceux qui ont subi des traumatismes de la maltraitance, dépendance, et / ou l'avortement.

 

J'ai souffert de dépression depuis que je suis adolescent et j'ai commencé à aller chez des conseillers laïques quand j'étais 17 ans. Il m'a fallu beaucoup de temps pour comprendre d'où vient cette dépression.

Ce qui l'a déclenché?

J'ai remarqué un motif. Quand il y a eu une occasion spéciale, Comme mon anniversaire, Noël, diplôme universitaire, ou retourner à NJ après avoir été absent pour 10 années, J'avais certaines attentes que je serais célébré d'une certaine manière avec des cadeaux et des fêtes. Quand ces attentes n'ont pas été satisfaites, Ensuite, je me sentais mal aimé et insignifiant.

Quand les choses ne se sont pas déroulées comme j'avais espéré, Je tomberais dans une dépression très profonde qui durerait des semaines à la fois. Cela m'est arrivé jusqu'à ce que je sois 34 ans.

J'étais codépendant, Et j'ai été déclenché par les actions et les paroles des autres qu'ils ont tellement déterminé ma vision de la vie et de ce que je ressentais pour moi. C'était un cercle vicieux qui a duré plusieurs décennies.

Dans ma maison d'origine, Nous n'avons jamais discuté ou travaillé sur des choses difficiles. Les gens ont juste crié ou vous ont donné le traitement silencieux. Il n'y a jamais eu de résolution. Pas de pardon, pas de grâce, Pas de communication saine. Il m'a fallu de nombreuses années de travail acharné pour apprendre à communiquer correctement et à établir des limites saines.

Je suis tellement reconnaissant pour ma relation avec Jésus, Mon Sauveur. Il est mon rocher, Ma forteresse, mon livreur, Ma tour haute, mon ami. Il est mon seul espoir. Il liera toutes mes blessures et guérira mon cœur brisé. Je sais ce qu'il pense de moi. Je suis la pomme de son œil. Il se réjouit de moi avec joie. Il me calme avec son amour, Et il se réjouit de moi en chantant. Il est très content de moi.

Je suis pardonné, racheté, Aimé et chéri par Dieu. Je suis adopté dans sa famille. Je suis victorieux en Christ; Rien ne peut me séparer de l'amour de Dieu qui est en Christ Jésus mon Seigneur. Ce sont les vérités sur lesquelles je me concentre pour guérir mon cœur brisé.

Des questions à prendre à cœur:

  1. Quels sont certains de vos déclencheurs?
  2. Avez-vous pu discerner d'où ils viennent?
  3. Qu'avez-vous appris au fil des ans pour vous protéger de ces pensées intrusives?
  4. Quelles sont certaines de vos écritures préférées pour vous aider lorsque vous êtes déclenché?
  5. Comment pouvons-nous prier pour vous?

Je prie ce sujet qui vous a été utile. Si tu as besoin de parler, Veuillez contacter avec un e-mail à: toni@myashestobeauty.com.

 

Tu es aimé,
Toni

 

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Peur de se rendre

Peur de se rendre

Peur de se rendre

November 13, 2021

Peur: Panic flight, causing of fear, terror (Strong’s Greek)

Surrender: Given out or over, surrendered, delivered (Strong’s Greek)

Écritures

2 Timothy 1:7

“For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.”

Psaume 25:20

“Keep my soul, and deliver me; let me not be ashamed, for I put my trust in You.”

Psaume 27:1-14

“1 The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear?

The Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?

2 When the wicked came against me to eat up my flesh,

my enemies and foes

They stumbled and fell.

3 Though an army may encamp against me,

my heart shall not fear;

though war may rise against me,

in this I will be confident,

4 One thing I have desired of the Lord,

that will I seek:

That I may dwell in the House of the Lord

All the days of my life,

To behold the beauty of the Lord,

and to inquire in His temple.

5 For in the time of trouble

he shall hide me in His pavilion;

In the secret place of his Tabernacle

He shall hide me;

He shall set me high up on a rock.

6 And now my head shall be lifted up above my enemies all around me;

Therefore I will offer sacrifices of joy to His Tabernacle;

I will sing, yes, I will sing praises to the Lord.

7 Hear, O Lord, when I cry with my voice!

Have mercy also upon me, and answer me.

8 when you said, “Seek My Face,"

My heart said to You, “Your face, Seigneur, I will seek”

9 Do not hide your face from me;

Do not turn your servant away in anger;

You have been my help;

Do not leave me nor forsake me.

Oh God of my salvation.

10 when my father and my mother forsake me,

Then the Lord will take care of me.

11 Teach me your way, O Lord,

And lead me in a smooth path, because of my enemies.

12 Do not deliver me to the will of my adversaries;

For false witnesses have risen against me,

And such as breathe out violence

13 I would have lost heart, unless I had believed

That I would see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living.

14 Wait on the Lord;

Be of good courage,

And He shall strengthen your heart;

Wait, I say, on the Lord!

When I say “fear of surrendering,” I’m not talking about our salvation. I’m talking about the things that we still hold onto that prevent us from completely surrendering our lives and will to Jesus.

Why do I still try to control my life, circumstances, and relationships? Why do I rely on myself instead of God?

Fear of surrender says that I believe that my way is better than God’s and that I trust myself more than the Lord to protect me, provide for me, and decide what’s best for me. It says that I am my own god.

When I am focused on my wounds from my past, I am not looking to Christ or to the liberty I now live in as His daughter.

Galatians 5:1 says “Standfast therefore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free, and do not be entangled again with a yoke of bondage.”

Surrendering is a daily choice. Instead of surrendering to Jesus, am I running to activities or behaviors that will harm me and hold me back from freedom in Him? If so, what are those things?

Do I run to any detrimental outlets including or similar to the following?

  • Overeating, undereating, or obsessively controlling what I eat
  • Relationships that feed my negativity
  • Gossip
  • Judgment of others and having a critical spirit, which prevent me from recognizing my shortcomings and working on myself
  • Control of people and my environment (e.g., being a hover mother, bossing around spouses or friends)
  • Not trusting God to handle a situation and outcome for a friend or loved one
  • Obsessive cleaning and/or organizing
  • Substance abuse (e.g., of alcohol and/or drugs)
  • Compulsive shopping
  • Failing to take care of myself
  • Overexercising
  • Busyness in the name of God
  • Overworking or being overly career oriented
  • People pleasing instead of God pleasing

The fear of surrender is a demonic spirit to which we give opportunity for entry into our lives by not staying steadfast in our walks with God, not staying in the Word and renewing our minds, running to sin, and not keeping our eyes on Jesus.

Des questions

  1. What things or old habits do you still run to that are preventing you from fully living a life surrendered to Christ today?
  2. What do you do to protect your mind and stay focused on the freedom that Christ has given you?
  3. Choose a scripture that you can memorize and speak out loud when you are struggling with surrendering a specific situation to God or ending an old habit. Please share it with the group.
  4. What specific thing can we be praying for you to be delivered from today?

 

God’s Beloved 1 John 3:2