Pensiero puzzolente: La mia visione distorta di Dio

Pensiero puzzolente: La mia visione distorta di Dio

Proverbi 23:7un, romani 2:4D, 1 Corinthians 6:20, e Giovanni 3:16

 

Il pensiero puzzolente si riferisce ai pensieri negativi che ci tormentano soprattutto quando lo siamo ALT (Hingrato, UNarrabbiato, lsolo o THo letto) o avere pensieri come una visione distorta di Dio e di sé, pensare negativo, giustificazione, paura, e ansia. Affronteremo ciascuno di questi argomenti in modo da poter discernere tra le bugie in cui abbiamo creduto nel corso degli anni e sostituirle con la verità di Dio. Il nostro obiettivo è quello di equipaggiarti in modo che tu possa avere la vittoria in queste aree.

Primo, dice la Parola di Dio nei Proverbi 23:7un, “Per come pensa nel suo cuore, lo è anche lui.” Ciò che pensiamo di noi stessi determina il modo in cui ci vediamo, Dio, e altri, e come rispondiamo alle cose. Se ci consideriamo figli di Dio, amato, amato e adottato nella famiglia di Dio, vedremo che siamo davvero speciali, riservato da Dio alle opere buone. Avremo una visione più positiva del mondo. Se sentiamo di non essere amabili a causa dei nostri peccati passati, e non una persona di valore, ci sentiremo depressi, solitario, e senza speranza. Riesci a vedere che ciò che pensiamo determina come ci sentiamo?

La mia prima visione distorta di Dio è iniziata quando ero un bambino molto piccolo 6 O 7 Anni. Vedevo Dio come un Dio arrabbiato e inavvicinabile. Me lo dicevano da bambino, se avessi fatto qualcosa di sbagliato, Dio mi avrebbe punito, Aspettavo costantemente che il martello mi cadesse in testa ogni volta che facevo qualcosa di sbagliato. La chiesa era antica e aveva bellissime vetrate colorate, ma dentro era buio, Freddo, e la gente parlava in latino. Non ho visto l'amore di Dio lì. Tutto quello che ho visto erano regole severe e dure punizioni per chi disobbediva. Ho visto gli studenti picchiarsi regolarmente con i righelli. Questo mi ha costretto a nascondermi di nuovo, come ho fatto a casa, quando mio padre aveva uno dei suoi scoppi di rabbia.

È la bontà di Dio che porta al pentimento. (romani 2:4D) Un metodo per modificare il comportamento è attraverso la paura del giudizio; l'altro è attraverso l'amore. Dio vuole che gli obbediamo per amore e non per paura. Se ami qualcuno e lui ti ama, vuoi trascorrere del tempo con questa persona, ma quando pensi a qualcuno come a una persona dura, questa non è qualcuno con cui ti senti sicuro e a tuo agio. Vedi la differenza?? Dio è amore, e la Sua grazia è immeritata. Per quello che Gesù ha fatto per me sulla croce, il minimo che posso fare è servirlo e obbedire alla sua Parola. Sono stato comprato a caro prezzo (1 Corinthians 6:20); il sangue prezioso di Gesù ha pagato il prezzo dei miei peccati e dei peccati del mondo intero.

Non vedevo l'amore di Dio evidente nella mia vecchia chiesa. Non è stato fino a quando non lo sono stato 34, quando frequentavo una piccola chiesa battista nel New Jersey, che ho sentito il Vangelo per la prima volta. L'edificio era molto semplice, nessuna vetrata. C'era una croce davanti al punto in cui stava il predicatore e un pianoforte. Ma una cosa che ho visto manifestata è stato l’amore di Dio che avevano queste persone. Questo è ciò che mi ha portato a Gesù. Era la predicazione della Parola di Dio attraverso la Bibbia e l'amore di Dio nelle parole, nelle azioni e nei volti delle persone che frequentavano quella piccola chiesa.

John 3:16 “Perché Dio ha tanto amato il mondo da dare il suo Figlio unigenito… ” Ci ha amato così tanto che ha dato suo Figlio a morire per te e per me; questa è un'immagine dell'amore sacrificale. Grazie, Gesù, per essere morto volontariamente sulla croce per noi, So che è stato il tuo amore per il mondo a tenerti su quella croce.

Credo che il nemico sia all’opera per distorcere la nostra visione di Dio, per farci dubitare che Egli ci ami veramente e si prenda cura di noi. Guarda Eva in giardino, il serpente (Satana), l'ingannatore e il padre della menzogna, cercando di piantare semi di dubbio nella mente di Eva riguardo al fatto se ci si possa fidare della Parola di Dio. Posso immaginare che stesse pensando, “Dio mi sta trattenendo qualcosa di buono, Non mi ama davvero perché se lo facesse, Mi darebbe tutto quello che voglio." Adamo ed Eva non sapevano cosa fosse meglio per loro, ed è lo stesso con noi; non sappiamo nemmeno cosa sia meglio per noi. Dio ci ha detto di non fare sesso prima del matrimonio. Ci stava trattenendo?? NO, in realtà ci stava proteggendo, soprattutto quelli di noi che vorrebbero abortire i nostri bambini. Stava cercando di proteggere noi e i nostri bambini.

Mi resi conto che era per amore che Dio non voleva che facessi sesso al di fuori del matrimonio, perché voleva proteggermi. Se solo avessi confidato in Dio e Lo avessi invitato nel mio processo decisionale e avessi creduto che Egli avrebbe provveduto a me e al mio bambino, allora forse avrei avuto il coraggio di scegliere la vita per il mio bambino. Invece la mia visione distorta di Dio mi ha fatto temere di avvicinarmi a Lui con i miei bisogni, che era il nemicoIl suo piano. Se il nemico può farci prendere dal panico e farci non cercare Dioè saggezza, disposizione, e protezione, allora ha vinto la battaglia.

Quali erano le tue visioni distorte di Dio quando eri più giovane??

Come lo vedi adesso??

 

benedizioni,

Toni

Leggi di più sui blog di Toni QUI.
Perché il perdono è così importante per il nostro benessere

Perché il perdono è così importante per il nostro benessere

Matteo 6:14-15, Ebrei 12:14-15, Proverbi 16:24 E 17:22

God commands us to forgive others. In Matthew 6:14-15 Jesus says, “For if you forgive men their trespasses, your Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”

Unforgiveness toward another person is a sin and separates us from God. If God can forgive me of all the evil I have done, how can I not forgive others? When we are in sin, we give the enemy a foothold. To prevent the enemy from gaining this access to our lives and tormenting us, we must confess our sins. If I hold onto unforgiveness, I become resentful, and then eventually bitter. Ebrei 12:14-15 says, “Pursue peace with all people, and holiness, without which no one will see the Lord: looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up cause trouble, and by this many become defiled…”

Unforgiveness left unchecked will defile all my relationships including and especially, my relationship with God. By releasing an individual into God’s hands for the offense they have committed against me or my family, I am handing them over to God for Him to deal with them. I then pray for that individual, continually asking the Lord to help me see the good in them and to help me forgive them. Forgiveness is a process. Keep asking God to help you forgive others.

In my family of origin, forgiveness was not demonstrated. Instead, we would just cut people off. For many years I didn’t see my cousins from my father’s side of the family because of some dispute. I picked up on that as a child and learned it as normal behavior. There is no grace and no forgiveness, only harsh words, actions and broken families. My family doesn’t apologize for things. They simply avoid bringing these things up for discussion, leaving the issues unresolved. Over time, I am supposed to forget about the offence because people will never apologize. However, I am a believer and am held to a higher standard; I am commanded to forgive others. I must obey God. He knows what is best for me. Holding onto unforgiveness destroys my peace; it controls me and torments me. On the other hand, when I forgive someone, they no longer have power over me and I am set free.

The Bible says that our words should be life affirming and encouraging to the hearer. Proverbi 16:24 says, “Pleasant words are as a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the bones.” In Proverbs 17:22 we read, “A merry heart does good, like medicine, but a broken spirit dries the bones.” We represent God to a world sitting in darkness and torment. The world does not know what the truth is; it is deceived by the evil one.

The people I need to forgive who were involved in my abortion decision:

  • The nurses and doctor for performing my abortion
  • Law makers for making abortion legal
  • My boyfriend for not fighting for our baby
  • Myself for thinking it was ok to tell my boyfriend we didn’t need birth control

Who do you need to forgive?

Forgiveness leads to freedom. It sets me free from holding others responsible for the wrongs they have done. By releasing them to God, they no longer have power over me. I choose to let go and to forgive them. This is not always easy, but it is critically important for my peace with God and others.

—Toni

Further reading on this topic:

Forgiveness

Leggi di più sui blog di Toni QUI.
Rachel piange per i suoi figli

Rachel piange per i suoi figli

Rachel piange per i suoi figli

di Toni Weisz/Discipline spirituali
Scritture: Matteo 2:13,16,18

In Matthew 2:13
Now when they had departed, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream, detto, “Arise, take the young Child and His mother, flee to Egypt, and stay there until I bring you word; for Herod will seek the young Child to destroy Him.”

Matteo 2:16
Then Herod, when he saw that he was deceived by the wise men, was exceedingly angry; and he sent forth and put to death all the male children who were in Bethlehem and in all its districts, from two years old and under, according to the time which he had determined from the wise men.

Can you imagine what Joseph and Mary were thinking at this point? They knew they had to flee because Herod wanted to destroy the child, Gesù, but they probably never imagined the evil that would befall their family and friends in Bethlehem. When the wise men did not return to tell Herod Jesus’ whereabouts, his anger was kindled against them and he made a decree to murder all the male children under the age of two. What a horror; I cry when I think of the depths of this evil. Joseph and Mary probably heard about what happened in Bethlehem. They were deeply grieved of the loss of these precious children but relieved that Jesus was spared.

We read in Matthew 2:18:
“A voice was heard in Ramah,
Lamentation, weeping, and great mourning,
Rachel weeping for her children,
Refusing to be comforted,
Because they are no more.”

I have wept for all the babies that have died from abortions. I have also wept over the broken hearts of the mothers and fathers. I have heard so many abortion stories over the past 18 years that I have lost count. Still, each time I hear one, my heart breaks for these precious women sharing their pain with me. I have felt like Rachel, weeping and not being able to be comforted.

But what could I do, Signore?

I knew I couldn’t stand by, especially after the first NY law passed. Watching lawmakers and pro-choice supporters giving each other high fives at the passing of this law was unfathomable. They just gave people permission to murder a completely developed baby, capable of living outside the womb. This is a vulnerable human being. What are we doing? Do we think God is going to continue to bless this country? I think not. Così, I stepped up my game and started actively doing STS Bible studies with other women. If God can heal a woman’s broken heart, perhaps next time when she finds herself in this situation, she will choose life. I want to break this cycle of death and change it to one of life.

After seeing the movie, “Unplanned”, I was standing at my sink and God spoke to me through His Holy Spirit. He said, “Every child in the womb is mine.” I cried and said, “Yes, Signore, I know. Please forgive me for robbing you of the life you gave me. I am so sorry.”

Just this morning on October 16, 2024, in a vision, I saw a drawing in dark coal pencils of full-term babies lying on the ground dead and a woman standing with her head down, wearing a long dark dress and a dark bonnet, surrounded by multitudes of babies too numerous to count. The sky was gray and the ground was also. It was very bleak and dark. In the distance were the silhouettes of women standing in a semicircle looking at the devastation from a distance. I only saw the picture for a few seconds, but it had a profound impact on me.

Signore, what about all these babies born alive after a botched abortion, especially if Amendment 4 is passed? Is no one going to comfort them, hold them, feed them; are they just being left alone to die? I am weeping bitterly right now while writing this. Oh Lord, I cannot comprehend the sound and the sight of these precious babies dying. Oh Lord, please forgive us for doing this evil thing, discarding our children like a piece of trash. Il Signore ha sussurrato al mio cuore, “I will come and take them with me to Heaven.” Thank you, Gesù, that gives me great comfort.

While I was on my knees crying out to God, His sweet Holy Spirit spoke to my heart, “Little Bird, you will be surrounded by these children in Heaven. Everyone will have work to do, and this will be yours. You will meet, hug, tenderly speak to and love on all these children. Because of your tears shed for them just like Rachel, this will be your work in Heaven.”

My Prayer:

Signore, I pray for each woman who is on this conference call or reading this blog and for all the lives that have been lost to abortion. I pray that we will be bold and courageous to defend the unborn and to protect women from experiencing this tragedy. Abortion is anti-woman; it is anti-family, and it is anti-God. Open the eyes of the blind so they can see that abortion is not contraception or women’s healthcare. It is the termination of a life, the termination of a gift from God, and is detrimental to the very soul of a woman. Father, we pray in the mighty name of Jesus that Your Holy Spirit will bring women out of the darkness into Your Light. Show them how much You love them; we pray Your love will penetrate the deepest part of their being. Father, we are confessing our sins, and we are asking you to forgive us and to heal our land. In Jesus’ name we pray, amen.

I know today’s topic is very hard and heavy. I think it’s important that we allow ourselves to go there to actually feel the pain and sorrow associated with abortion, not only our own but also of others. We need to inform women that abortion is not a quick fix. We need to be bold and courageous and to share our testimonies.

Domande da prendere a cuore:

  1. How did today’s topic affect you?
  2. Do you feel it’s time for you to take the next step in your healing?
    3. For those who have experienced significant healing, what are you doing to get involved in protecting women and babies from abortion?
  3. Come possiamo pregare per te?

If God has tugged on your heart to get involved, there are numerous ministries and courses you can take to better equip you for the work of the ministry. Go to: www.myashestobeauty.com/resources.

Per favore contattaci se hai bisogno di parlare: toni@myashestobeauty.com.

You are deeply loved,
Toni

Leggi di più sui blog di Toni QUI.
Santità per la vita umana

Santità per la vita umana

Luci’s blog

As I write this, it is the 47th anniversary of Roe vs Wade when the US Supreme Court decided abortion will be “legal” in all 50 states.

Churches all across America recognize this 3rd Sunday in January each year, as Sanctity of Human Life Sunday. It is a day when we as believers, thank God for the gift of life, we remember those who have died as a result of abortion, and we commit ourselves to protect the unborn.

To give you an idea of where we are, here are some statistics:

From 1973 to 2017 more than 60 million lives have been lost to abortion.

Every year, an estimated one million abortions are performed in the US.

As many as 2,500 unborn babies lose their lives in abortions every day.

4 out of 10 women who choose abortion identify as Christians and are attending church at least once a month. The sad truth is, many of us have been affected by what has been promoted as a quick fix to an inconvenience. Some of us have personal experience, some have a family member or know someone who has had an abortion.

But we have been lied to by the enemy of our souls. In John 10:10, Jesus says, “The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” And the enemy has been involved in the killing of God’s children since the beginning of time.

Some of you may have hearts that are burdened with sins from your past. For some sins, it is harder for us to receive the forgiveness Christ offers than for others. Especially those sins committed against the body. Sexual sin and abortion are difficult to share and receive healing for because they touch us so deeply and there is great shame and stigma attached to them.

I am passionate about this because it has affected me personally. And I suffered so much for my choice! I was alone and afraid; I had no one in my young life that could speak truth to me. I was fed the lie that it wasn’t a baby and that I would be better off without it. For many months after the procedure, I was deeply depressed and felt empty inside over my decision; I cried every night. After being witnessed to over and over, I turned to the Lord Jesus for forgiveness because the burden was too heavy. He turned my life around and immediately forgave me. But I had to work through a lot of emotional struggles. I look back on that time and since the Lord showed me His forgiveness, over time I learned to let go of the guilt and shame I was holding on to and receive healing from the Lord through His Word and other believers.

The Lord exposed me to some compassionate and amazing Christians who were involved in the pro-life movement. And they helped me work through the fallout and heal to the point that I was able to minister to other hurting women who were alone in their secret suffering. It was a great relief to get rid of the burden of myself hate!

And the cross is open to all; the Lord receives all that ask for His forgiveness. There is healing available for grieving hearts that regret their involvement in abortion. It is not the unforgivable sin. Our Savior went to the cross for all sins.

When our hearts are surrendered to Jesus, we make better choices for ourselves and others. And there is support and protection in the body of Christ. But there are people out there who don’t know this yet. It’s up to us to share Christ love and truth with the those He brings into our lives and our church.

As we often say, the courts can make abortion illegal but only God through his church can make it unthinkable. The good news is, the abortion rate is declining but there are still so many we can reach out to with God’s love and healing!

— Luci